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说完就走

QUOTE Created By gggg At 2006-3-14
is this call true love or he just keep his promise, I really don't know.

keep his promise maybe,but,isn't the life like that?!promise turns love at last.

luolc

QUOTE Created By gggg At 2006-3-12
[quote]QUOTE Created By 牧野流星 At 2006-3-11
[quote]QUOTE Created By gggg At 2006-3-11
one toughest question: Can love really last a lifetime?

Answer Yes or No make no difference [M01] [M01][/quote]
to answer this question, It seems can not simply say "yes" or "no". that's my understanding.

I read one of interseting news from a magezine, It says that a team of scientists found that romantic love involves chemical changes in the brain that last 12 to 18 months only. what do you think? is it make sense to you or not? that seems mean when you love somebody, the LOVE chemical "element" in your body can only last for 12 to 18 months!!! after that, it would be disappear, other words, it means you might be not LOVE your lover again.

do you agree with that?[/quote]

I agree with this view！After a period，the lover may change into family feeling。

gggg

QUOTE Created By 说完就走 At 2006-3-14
[quote]QUOTE Created By gggg At 2006-3-14
is this call true love or he just keep his promise, I really don't know.

keep his promise maybe,but,isn't the life like that?!promise turns love at last.[/quote]
but, I guess you know what is "Alzheimer's disease"means, when a person who catch this kind of disease, he or she will eventually lost his or her own mind, and forget all (or most) of his or her memory, so how do the "love" feelings come?

gggg

QUOTE Created By luolc At 2006-3-14
[quote]QUOTE Created By gggg At 2006-3-12
[quote]QUOTE Created By 牧野流星 At 2006-3-11
[quote]QUOTE Created By gggg At 2006-3-11
one toughest question: Can love really last a lifetime?

Answer Yes or No make no difference [M01] [M01][/quote]
to answer this question, It seems can not simply say "yes" or "no". that's my understanding.

I read one of interseting news from a magezine, It says that a team of scientists found that romantic love involves chemical changes in the brain that last 12 to 18 months only. what do you think? is it make sense to you or not? that seems mean when you love somebody, the LOVE chemical "element" in your body can only last for 12 to 18 months!!! after that, it would be disappear, other words, it means you might be not LOVE your lover again.

do you agree with that?[/quote]

I agree with this view！After a period，the lover may change into family feeling。[/quote]
I think so!

romantic

QUOTE Created By gggg At 2006-3-14
[quote]QUOTE Created By 说完就走 At 2006-3-14
[quote]QUOTE Created By gggg At 2006-3-14
is this call true love or he just keep his promise, I really don't know.

keep his promise maybe,but,isn't the life like that?!promise turns love at last.[/quote]
but, I guess you know what is "Alzheimer's disease"means, when a person who catch this kind of disease, he or she will eventually lost his or her own mind, and forget all (or most) of his or her memory, so how do the "love" feelings come?[/quote]

This story prove this man who is a responsible,maybe is not true love.I think. [M11]

gggg

it seems becoming a little bit boring. how about we talk something else: can a man and a woman ever just be friends?

gggg

..........friends....... share with all of you.......(ZT)

《朋友就是...》
A Friend is... 朋友就是...

Accepts you as you are 接受原本你的人

Believes in "you" 相信你这个人的人

Calls you just to say "Hi" 打电话给你就是想说声"嗨"的人

Doesn't give up on you 从不放弃对你的信心的人

Envisions the whole of you 认为你总是尽全力的人

Forgives your mistakes 原谅你的过错的人

Gives unconditionally 无条件地愿为你付出的人

Helps you 帮助你的人

Invites you over 邀请你的人

Jest "be" with you 静静地在你的身旁的人

Keeps you close at heart 靠近你心的人

Loves you for who you are 因你原来的样子而爱你的人

Makes a difference in your life 使你的生活与以往不同的人

Never judges 不论断的人Offers support 支持你的人

Picks you up 扶你一把的人

Quiets your fears 止息你的惧怕的人

Raises your spirits 鼓舞你的心灵的人

Says nice things about you 跟别人述说你好的那一面的人

Tells you the truth when you need to hear it 当需要时会告诉你实情的人

Understands you 懂你的人

Values you 看重你的人

Walks beside you 与你同行的人

X-plain things you don't understand 解你疑惑的人

Yells when you won't listen 在你不耐心时会对你大吼一下的人

Zaps you back to reality 把你拉回现实的人

luolc

I think that a man and a woman can't be true friends each other. If a wan and a woman can mainten their friendship for long time, I think that they must think each other as a same type.

牧野流星

QUOTE Created By luolc At 2006-3-15
I think that a man and a woman can't be true friends each other. If a wan and a woman can mainten their friendship for long time, I think that they must think each other as a same type.

i am a little bit confused by this
and do not agree either

for nomal friend, people require less,for close friend,he/she might be the one who makes you happy and meanwhile be happy with you,but it does not mean he/she has same style as you.perhaps totally different

gggg

I think a man and a woman just can be friends for a short time, because by nature, man and woman just like magnets, and the "sexuality" is the main reason which drives man and woman magnetize together, so, heheehe,I don't know what I'm talking about...just seems too serious.

luolc

QUOTE Created By gggg At 2006-3-16
I think a man and a woman just can be friends for a short time, because by nature, man and woman just like magnets, and the "sexuality" is the main reason which drives man and woman magnetize together, so, heheehe,I don't know what I'm talking about...just seems too serious.

I agree this view. I think that if a man and a woman can be friends for a long time, one of them must be love another on the mind. is it right?

romantic

QUOTE Created By gggg At 2006-3-16
I think a man and a woman just can be friends for a short time, because by nature, man and woman just like magnets, and the "sexuality" is the main reason which drives man and woman magnetize together, so, heheehe,I don't know what I'm talking about...just seems too serious.

you are right.I think so also.

But I have a friend who is a man,we are being good friends for many years,but we are still friends,nothing happend.[M04]

Playboy

I got the movie "The brokenback moutain",anyone want to have a look can contact with me. Fifty GLG each time. [M04]

baner

QUOTE Created By 天线宝宝 At 2006-3-10
I have read this film's brief with pictures, I think I am touched deeply by the ture love of humen being, although I do not agree the relationship between gays.

Even though I still haven't seen this movie, but I deeply agree with above opinion.

baner

Resend ! Sorry.

Regarding to friendship between man and woman, I have no right to speak, because I have no true and pure male friend. I just know the friendship must can be so pure as the one between two men or two women. If the man and woman can keep only spirit communication, it maybe , because sex is not the problem. If they also want to keep pure relationship , it is a little impossible.