我如果事情是真的，我该怎么决定呢，，，，，，唉~~~~

junrenx

如果是真的，这个女孩也不容易啊！年纪轻轻就要撑着个家。

雨天

说实话：如果你是一个没有过去的人，找一个有过去的女孩会心理不平衡的，一直会觉得自己有点亏，而且这种感觉会越来越重，记得我当初找老公就有一个要求：没有真正恋爱过，因为我自己也是这样，这种对等的关系比较利于以后的日常生活。
所以楼主还是要慎重。

喜欢骏景论坛

如果是真的，就努力别让她继续做二奶了，和她好好沟通看她到底是怎样的状态，真爱她也别计较她以前的事情。

jennifershen

Did you see the movie "Pretty Woman"?

Things only happen in the movie, not in the real life except you are a billionaire. Marriage is "Men2 Dong1 Hu4 Dui4". You and the girl must be the same kind or type. Don't screw up yourself. I don't think you and the girl are the same kind of being.

The beauty of life is that simple is happy.

Keep your eyes open to look for a good girl without trouble past if you want your marriage last forever.

It's not difficult to find a good girl if you really want to get marry.

Big Mouth

jennifershen

Did you see the movie "Pretty Woman"?

Things only happen in the movie, not in the real life except you are a billionaire. Marriage is "Men2 Dong1 Hu4 Dui4". You and the girl must be the same kind or type. Don't screw up yourself. I don't think you and the girl are the same kind of being.

The beauty of life is that simple is happy.

Keep your eyes open to look for a good girl without trouble past if you want your marriage last forever.

It's not difficult to find a good girl if you really want to get marry.

Big Mouth

御风飞翔

假如她遇到一位好心的大伯，那么她现在应该有一定的事业（自己的或在她大伯的企业），而不是现在的无业（楼主好像提过）。

APACHE

QUOTE Created By jennifershen At 2005-7-20
Did you see the movie "Pretty Woman"?

Things only happen in the movie, not in the real life except you are a billionaire. Marriage is "Men2 Dong1 Hu4 Dui4". You and the girl must be the same kind or type. Don't screw up yourself. I don't think you and the girl are the same kind of being.

The beauty of life is that simple is happy.

Keep your eyes open to look for a good girl without trouble past if you want your marriage last forever.

It's not difficult to find a good girl if you really want to get marry.

Big Mouth

Good!Richard & Julia....

潜水员

好复杂的事

[M10] 祝LZ好运 [M41]

沧海一声笑

QUOTE Created By APACHE At 2005-7-19
问题很简单,处理狠困难

同感 [M10] [M10] [M10]

alana

QUOTE Created By 御风飞翔 At 2005-7-20
假如她遇到一位好心的大伯，那么她现在应该有一定的事业（自己的或在她大伯的企业），而不是现在的无业（楼主好像提过）。

同意！ [M29] [M29]

小喇叭

QUOTE Created By jennifershen At 2005-7-20
Did you see the movie "Pretty Woman"?

Things only happen in the movie, not in the real life except you are a billionaire. Marriage is "Men2 Dong1 Hu4 Dui4". You and the girl must be the same kind or type. Don't screw up yourself. I don't think you and the girl are the same kind of being.

The beauty of life is that simple is happy.

Keep your eyes open to look for a good girl without trouble past if you want your marriage last forever.

It's not difficult to find a good girl if you really want to get marry.

Big Mouth

红字部分硬是念了5六遍才念顺了。 [M08] [M13] [M13] [M13]

寂寂山贼

晕倒，你还真相信这世界会掉金馅饼，会有无缘无故的爱，你有没有那么纯情无邪，这么天真烂漫啊？你发这个贴子就是说明你连自己都说服不了，其实想在网络上寻找安慰而已。我今天就是要拍你，而且是狠狠的拍醒你，我可以很负责的告诉你：你的女朋友一定是给人包养！
别骗自己了，清醒要比昏迷痛苦，自己的道路自己选择，你如果有这么宽广的胸襟接受这个血的现实，能说服自己以后坚决不翻旧帐，你就娶。接受不了，那还是做一个普通的男人，重新找一个背景和自己差不多的女孩，跟往事告别。 [M14]

知更

血淋淋的事实。。。 [M13] [M13]

好困惑

不过她真的是一个好女孩，，十分懂事的，我想估计是因为她经历的太多了吧，虽然她才24岁，她不但自己来我们家，还把自己弟弟妹妹带过来，我爸爸妈妈见了都说这几个小孩都比较懂事，不像现在外面的小孩，

我在她家里看到过她的很多奖状，她以前还是班长，她弟弟现在也是班长，妹妹英语成绩十分优秀，，虽然他们家里条件十分艰苦，但是几个小孩却是十分争气，，

有一次我问她妹妹，现在在家里你们都听谁的，她说都听她姐姐的，我问为什么，她说姐姐以前吃了很多苦，现在都听她得，，。。。。

还有，我跟她说过，现在想不想摆脱这个大伯，她说很想，我说为什么，她说大伯太关心他们了，搞得他们都没有自由，一天一个电话，问这问那，有时候我在想，这个大伯生意这么大，哪里还有这么多时间管他们啊，，，我隐含得说干脆离开大伯算了，她却说不敢，说是家里得所有都是大伯在供他们，而且说以后和我在一起了，大伯可能还会资助我们。。。。天，我是越来越不明白了，，，，

香香

建议好好和女朋友坦诚说出你的想法，如果看得开就继续，实在没办法接受还是早点分开的好。